For sure!! I also still love my romantic pairings, but it can feel frustrating to read romantic fic that casually employs amatonormative language and ideas. Most of my fandom friends are either aroace-spec in some way, or is an ally aware of our issues, so stepping out of that bubble can be like a cold bucket of water! Thankfully, I think fandom is getting better with this over time, based on my personal observations.
And thank you!!! The hanahaki fic is still one of my faves!
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Date: 2025-01-06 01:40 am (UTC)For sure!! I also still love my romantic pairings, but it can feel frustrating to read romantic fic that casually employs amatonormative language and ideas. Most of my fandom friends are either aroace-spec in some way, or is an ally aware of our issues, so stepping out of that bubble can be like a cold bucket of water! Thankfully, I think fandom is getting better with this over time, based on my personal observations.
And thank you!!! The hanahaki fic is still one of my faves!