bedes | Toying With the Thought of Making a Dungeon Meshi Community

I've been pondering making a community for one of my interests. None of my current 'big 3' hyperfixations (Alien Stage, Dungeon Meshi and STUDIO INVESTIGRAVE games) have a community of their own. I know for a fact that INVESTIGRAVE's games do not have an audience here on Dreamwidth, because I'm the only bitch who comes up when you search "Dead Plate" (their most popular game). If we, again, use searching via interests as a reference point, there is more of an audience for Alien Stage, but nearly half of the results for it have journals which have never updated even once. Which leaves Dungeon Meshi -- 3 whole pages of people who name it as an interest!

I went ahead and made the community, gave it an icon and made it an associated graphic. I thought I might-as-well claim the username now, as I could always just delete it later. It's still being set up, though, so I'm not gonna link it until it's actually ready for members.

So far, this "Creating a Dreamwidth community" masterpost that was shared with me has helped a lot with the fine-tuning. I'm currently having to duke it out with the current "can't apply styles to communities" glitch, and with figuring out the final details.

Currently, the rules I've decided on are as follows:

The "treat others with respect" rule. This includes bigotry and harassment.
A rule regarding which content requires a cut. Right now, I'm requiring a cut for triggering content, image-heavy content, large images, explicit sexual topics, and long text (3+ paragraphs). I'm also more or less yoinking the approach of bnha_fans regarding spoilers for the anime: spoilers for the anime require a warning and cut, but, unless a post is tagged as anime-only, the comments are fair game for all discussion.
Provide a source for fanworks you didn't create, and only do so for artists who are okay with credited reposts.

I'm running into an issue with regards to "taboo" content. I'm a survivor who is triggered by subjects that a lot of fandomfolk on here tend to enjoy, which means I would not be able to moderate said content. (I also just plain don't really like to interact with folks who post that stuff a lot, if I can help it. I probably wouldn't be able to help it, though, if I ran a community, which is fine, I guess. Community-runners have to talk to all sorts of people they may not like.) However, if I put, "No fanworks depicting these things," in the rules, I know from experience that I'm going to get a bunch of disgruntled people (either to my face, or in "fandom wank"-type communities) yelling at / about me for being a prude, anti, fascist, probably not even a real victim (yes, real example), etc. Which, you know, I would prefer to not happen. But that still doesn't change the fact that I can't moderate that without triggering flashbacks, which I would also prefer to not happen.

Ugh, I hate dumbfuck fandom discourse. Why is "I don't want to see triggering content" seen as a declaration of war on among fandom olds?? Christ.